No attachments yet please......

I'm all smiles!
Yes, I know, I'm not to get attached. And this time, I'm glad the guy isn't over pushy.

So, mom gave him my number Wednesday night, explaining that I was just home for the weekend and I would also be leaving for co-op in a monthish. So ... He called as soon as he got my number. That night we talked on the phone for about 2 hours. Just kinda getting to know each other a little. Seemed like a nice guy, and we decided seeing faces might be a good thing too. So he called Thursday to ask when might be the best time to meet up .... and so late on Thursday we did.

The night went well, we both had an enjoyable evening. After just talking for over a hour, we rented a movie and just watched it at his place in tight quarters. But he was a gentleman about everything, didn't try anything at all. Nice guy. (all the while reminding myself - no attachment).

Well, after asking if it was acceptable for me to call him back first, I did. I, last minute, invited him to go bowling with us. He did. And he looked nice too. He spent an hour with us bowling before taking off so he wasn't too tired at church in the morning. I was just glad he came.

I walked out with him and he told me when he was normally off just so I had an idea of his schedule. He will be off the whole time I am home over break. He told me that he is normally really busy and therefore does not normally call anyone. So I was free to call him when ever, and he would make time to talk for a bit. And if I wanted to go do anything.... he would normally be up for it. A hug good bye and he was off.

So now I know. He will expect to hear from me, and a phone call from him to me will be an unexpected but good occurrence. But no attachment beyond friendship, I think that's understood right now. But I am so cool with that, being friends first is always better. And, hey, he likes me too, and has fun doing things with me (and so far, my friends). Yea, for a decent guy!

And only time will tell if anything but friendship comes of this.